I met this really cool (at least that was thought at the time), fine man who was everything I ever dreamt of in a man (physically I mean), he is tall, had a seeming great personality, had a decent job...well, frm our first date, he told he just wanted to marry me, long story short, a year later we got married. I was 23 when we started courting and 24 when we got married. Unfortunately, he was quite physically abusive and I loved him with my whole heart and was really tolerating stuff and praying... Read (8)

Hi pals, I need your advice on this: there is someone that want to sale his half plot of land in a well developed area @ N1.5M. And I have a car that I am using to work that worth N1.7M. So I am contemplating if I should sale the car to purchase the land or I should continue using my car to work due to distance. I am confused pls. Help me. Matured mind oly.... Read (10)

I need your candid advice on this. Please in the compound where I reside. We have three flats; One bedroom flat (Husband, wife & two children) One bedroom flat (my Husband & Me) Two Bedroom flat (2 married men living together & sharing one room each because they relocated to PH becos of their job since March 2016). What I am trying to point out is about pumping of water in our compound; The people living in our compound don’t like bringing out money for any issues that arises in the co... Read (8)

Great people, it's being a while on diz platform but no where to run to expect to u guyz. Kudos to all ur comments on issues bothering our people. My problem is my gal, we started dating during my service year though she's still a Jambite. She was so loving and caring at first, but of recent she developed d following attitudes: 1. Expect too much from me CNT even understand wen am broke. And she has not even given a kobo in her life. 2. Tells me all d big gals am seeing flexing today i... Read (8)

I snatched her man because she refused to give me food during her wedding . I waited patiently to get the man before I could come public to brag,l am sharing this story to warn married ladies . My best friend invited me for a wedding,l did not know the couples I just followed my friend because I was broke and hungry,l was so broke that day that I could not afforded a bottle of coke. So I joined her for the wedding,unfortunately for me the food was just passing me by,and my friend was busy formin... Read (8)

Good afternoon everyone,please I just need advice on something thou it not a confession I' m planing on going to naija for the first time after 5yrs for visit,i have like 2.5million if converted to naira and I don' t know if it will be enough for me to spent for 4weeks and save some in a personal account I intend to open,I will be staying in my own house I was able to built ,a friend said the money is too small and I don' t have any more for now,I already bought the ticket,I' m j... Read (11)

I have an issue with my girlfriend, she' s cool and all. But she does something that makes me feel incomplete as a guy. Anytime we' re on the road driving. She' s always looking at better cars and smiling at the owners inside it. Over flirting even. Sometimes I feel like am an uber driver. Sometimes I make jokes and say kuku dive into the car now. Until some gave her a wink and she gave him a sexy wink back. Am like what is all these. Is it just play or what is it ? I drive a baby bo... Read (11)

Friend you need toput the relationship into God hands... Read (6)

is this love? or do i call it obsession? i have fallen completely in love with him but we cant be...he doesnt want me...d feeling is too deep...tired of hoping he would change his mind...damn, how do u guys cope with this kind of unwanted passion? i really need ur help... Read (5)

After about four years of marriage, I left my husband because of his responsibility.I now live in a comfortable flat with my two young children. Since I started dating, I seem to prefer younger men. Some as much as six years younger. I am in my early thirties and my friends keep making fun of me even when such men earn more than I do. Does my attraction to younger men mean I am a pervert? Older men really bore me as they don’t make the efforts younger men do.... Read (12)