I dont understand, whenever i traveled to see my boyfriend, we are always happy together, sometimes i will spend 1/2 months with him and everything will just be fine but sometimes we do have misunderstanding but we are always having a good time even if i spend 2month with him we can never get tired of eachother but as soon as i traveled dat is were my torment begins, we quarrel all de time, we will laugh today quarrel tomororrow, we always quarrel over stupid tins, he thinks am with another guy, whenever he calls me i always pick up and maybe after taiking for like 30 minutes and i say to him dat we taik later dat i want to do one or two things together dat i will call him back, he will say ok and maybe after 20 or 30minutes i will call him back and we will be taiking again, what i mean is dat, he wants us to be taiking all de time on phone, and me i always get tired to be on de line for 1 or 2 hours, he always like to taik to me all de time on phone, maybe bcos he is bored bcos he always say to me dat everywere is boring bcos he dont have a job at de moment but me am not always bored like him, i would want to do one or two tins and he will be thinking dat am always discharging him, he always think am having someone else and dat is always causing problem, he said dat its bcos its only me he has, how which he has another girlfriend he will not be bothered even calling me all de time, i will be de one to be calling his line, i'm so tired bcos he is using his loneliness to cause trouble in our relationship, i know he care, he loves me and likes my company but I get tired when am on phone for 1 to 2 hours, i prefer u call me, we taik for 30minutes and u can decide to call back again after 30minutes then we can start again not being on de phone for 1 to two hours, some days are like dat when am ready to taik for even 5hours, he loves me bcos of de way he used to treat me in and out, i love him and dont want to lose him but he keep disturbing my brain with another black boyfriend, he is too jealous and always breaking my heart with his words, he always say something dat will hurt me, i love him but so tired of dis distance relationship, he cant take care of me, i have to do all dat by myself bcos i dont care if he has money or not, i have been away for just 2days and another dramer has started already, i have to pass through dis again, whenever i traveled its always like dis, always quarreling and am tired of it, i really want to quite bcos i dont have rest of mind bcos whenever we quarrel over stupid tins, i cant eat or have a good sleep but its very difficult bcos i love him so much, am so confused tired of quarreling, dont just know what to do again