Hello fellow pals. Please I need a mature advice before I carry out a nasty decision that will end everything and affect my child upbringing. I am a lady of 31 live in US, I have 4year old girl. I got married last year but have been with my baby father for 6 years before we finally tied the knot. The issue right now is that I filed for him to join in US. He is here with me. But the problem is he does not want to live with me in the state that I am currently but rather wants to go to where his brother is which is a different state form mine. All along he played me not letting me know that his intention was to stay where his brother is. Now I am in a dilemma. I want to give him divorce letter to end the marriage, cause I don't think we r meant for each other rather wants to stay where his brother is. I have really spent a lot when it comes to this marriage I have wated my years with him. I have been the sole provider for the past 7years and now this is what he wants to pay me back. I don't want to do anything nasty but I feel hurt and cheated. The family r nothing to write home about. Cause they r in support of me relocating with someone that's not up to two weeks in America to another state
I have lived in this so call state that he wants to relocate to 4 six years before I decided to relocate to another state
Pls pals help me out. I have been in tears foe the past few weeks and have been so depressed and stress out
I can't concentrate at all.