I am a married white English woman, 32 years old. My manager is an older Nigerian man (56 years old), who is trying to seduce me. He knows I am married, but he doesn' t care. He keeps asking me to work late, when really there isn' t any work to do. He just wants to be alone with me when everyone else has gone. He keeps telling me that he loves white women, and telling me how beautiful I am. He also keeps telling me that I am racist in saying no to him because he is black. I am not being racist, I say no because I am married, but he doesn' t listen. He keeps telling me every day how beautiful I am and that if I sleep with him he will satisfy me ten times more than my white husband, he keeps touching my bottom and sometimes even my breasts. Although I should be angry, it does feel nice. He lives near work and keeps asking me to go to his flat. I must admit I am getting a bit tempted. I have never slept with a black man and wonder what it will be like. will it be as good as he keeps telling me. I don' t want to cheat on my husband, but sometimes when my manager touches me I feel aroused. Should I give in and sleep with him? My husband would kill me if he knew I slept with a black man, but I find the idea turns me on and I keep thinking about it. Is it bad to sleep with my manger? What should I do? If I don' t sleep with him, I am worried I might lose my job. Half of me wants to but the other half says I shouldn' t.