I am caught up in my own love square (no not triangle). I’m currently in a long distance relationship and I’m having major second thoughts.

My boyfriend doesn’t show me enough attention. He claims he’s always working and if that’s the case that’s fine, but can a sister get a text message. We had plans on him and his son moving to the state I’m in and getting our life officially started. Well, time has flown by and now I’m thinking maybe this isn’t such a good idea. If he can’t show me some kind of attention from afar then when he gets here it may be worse. No need to waste our time and confuse his son.

So, in comes guy #2. This guy gives me all that I’m looking for. He has picked up the slack and then some from my boyfriend. Attention, conversation, makes me laugh and is overall a really nice person. When he and I first met we agreed that what we have will not be a relationship. It was strictly just us having fun and you know what else. LOL! But, lately he seems to want more. I explained my situation to him from the beginning and he understood and agreed. He claims to be able to do for me what I want. Age-old story. Who’s to say that if I agree to this he won’t turn out to be the same thing I’m dealing with now?

Then, strolls in guy #3. He’s an ex who wants a second chance. I haven’t told him about my situation, but I’m sure he knows I have someone. He was a good boyfriend, but I just couldn’t deal with his lack of motivation. Since we’ve been apart he’s done a complete turnaround. I still have feelings for him, and, yet again I’m not sure what to do. Any advice is appreciated