hello pals, i have this little piece bordering me and need ur opinion! a girl i have been dating for 4 years without sex just broke my heart after disflowering her a week ago. the 4 years relationship has been on & off thing as a result of Class diffrent. she is 1st class ajebota and i was a kpako guy who by God' s grace upgraded to comfortable middle class. i met her when she was 20 (she was still a virgin) but she refuse to give in 4 sex until early this year when she came to appologise that she realised she really love me and she has not been fair to me. she finally give me her pride as a birthday gift and i did it gently and responsibly and she was very happy. i proposed to her after two months that i disflowered her and she accepted. my good ppl she suddenly came up with a break up talk a week ago that the way she loved me is toomuch and she don' t want to die of high blood pressure that we should break up! she said she can' t sleep well because she is thinking of me day and night and can' t sleep normally! i tried to explain to her that she is in Love but she said she is scared that we can only be friends that she don' t want my intimacy again - that she can' t handle the emotions anymore. she stoped calling me pet names and told me we are just friends and nothing more again. she said the parents warened her before that i will disappoint her in the future but she didn' t consider their advice. i really love her despite she and her parents have hurt me in the past, i still see her as the best lady for me... she is decent, romantic and inteligent! i have tried to talk her through this but she ask me to go look for someone else that the love and care am showing her is too much ... am just confused. she doesn' t wanna see my face again but she said i have never hurt her in anyway. what do i do pals! am 35 she is 24, we previously agreed to get married february 2017 but she has cancelled everything... i need ur opinion pls because i have tried alot. i have a very good and lucrative job but she receive a better pay. (diffrence of 30k) ... i don' t know where to start again if the red card is final.