I have been nurturing this feeling for a while with a married woman whose husband is not in the country .Initially we started as just friends,but as times went on, i started developing strong feelings for her,although this feelings was consensual because she sometimes shows it by caring for me as well.She talks naughty and can be very open to me without any secret.Am married as well,my wife knows her and she now gets along with her . i Have spoken to her hubby on several occasions overseas,though never had the time to meet him before he traveled. The bond between us is so strong that i always think about her,though she confesses she thinks about me occasionally though and sometimes asked me what will happen to us when she finally joins her hubby over there.we have got so closed that each time i visit her house,my wife has the liberty of entering her kitchen and dishing out food herself.The chemistry between us is so strong that i always think about her.She allows me kiss her but we have never had sex,though no intentions to engage in sex because i want to hold to our friendship for a very long time.But the issue is that i feel i am more attracted to her and feel so disappointed with the fact that i have got a wife here with me and her hubby is abroad.She sometimes told me she cherished our friendship more than words can explain,but it will be selfish of her to request for sex from me holding to the fact that my wife as accepted her as a family friend through me, and the last thing she wants to do is hurt her.Frankly i don't intend having sex with her .but i always want to kiss and hold her because i feel having sex with her will make us loss that bound that binds us together as friends for over a year as i don't intend loosing her friendship.At times i feel so disappointed when she appears hot and cold,maybe because i have expectations and those expectations are not being met( always want her to be romantic at all times). As a result,my expectations are getting the better of me.I want a way to let this strong emotions fizzle away,but still want to keep her very close.How do i achieved this without upsetting the odds? Your suggestion will be highly appreciated .many thanks