Tnx so much my lovely pple of naija pal for the lovely advice u gave me abt. My feelings to my xgf.bt most pple miss understood my post indesence that I dnt whant to leav my present gf or any resions cs we love each other so much.bt am trying to said is that I stil think of her N some time dreams of her bt nt to hv her in my life ,distance is what separated us nothing else we dnt fight .if nt she wil be the one in my life cs she's my first.bt what now saying is that why her feeling in me st... Read (5)

HANDLING THE HURTS OF THE PAST most deep hurts emanate from betrayal but you must knw that in hurt there is treason, although betrayal hurts and hits so hard but can be healed! So how can we handle this past pains 1. Take the hurt as learning experiences of life. 2. Put purpose to your hurts i.e use it to reach out to hurting hearts 3. Avoid self withdrawal or tepid attitutude towards new thing God wants to do. 4. Stop lamenting on the past cause regret expresions can ruin future possibilities. ... Read (7)

I am sure a lyf tym commitment isn't sumtin 2 gamble wit n i try as much as possible 2 apply due deligence in my r/ship. I observe dt d gal i hope 2 settle wit always dnt want 2 talk abt her family. Thou she visited me lyk 3times n from my little observation, she seems 2 b 9ice bt we weren't opportune 2 date 4 long b4 distance seperated us. I knew her ryt frm schl but sincerely i dnt knw where she lives. If i want 2 c her i had 2 go 2 her office. Any tym i demand 2 speak wit her family... Read (10)

I need ur advice my lovely pple of naija pal.I hv a gf whom I disvairgin when I ws in ss1 she love me so much bt distance separete us over 14yrs now bt to my suprice I stil hv feelings for her up todate to the extend that I do dream of her most time n I feel like seen her when am awaike.though I hv someone am dating now,bt my xgf memory stil there hw can I over come this pls .Mature responce pls cs insult pains a lot... Read (14)

My problem nw, i don't hv a girl friend to cal my own, a Gradguate at 30, i am tired of toastin. Is it b/c of my smal organ. I am confuse.... Read (12)

I'm 30 yrs old recently finished nat. youth service n presently lookin 4 job. Actually, my priority ryt is gettin a job n probably settle down in d nearest future. D problem now is dat i hv being thinkin either 2 start lookin 4 dat special woman & serious r/ship 2wards when i'll get a job n ready 2 settle down or 2 put on hold searching 4 a serious r/ship till i secure a job n ready cos i've dis bliv dat now is d tym since i dnt hv a job 2 find true luv than when job n some cash s... Read (13)

An adult due for marriage,but her guy insist she must go to bed wit him and d lady refused to and is almost breaking dem apart,wat shuld she do... Read (16)

Am a gurl of 19 i always want to be a dancer but my waist is stiff i cant even shake it lik ma fellow gurls and is makin ma boifwend angry each time we go to party,pls wat shuld i do to mak it flexible... Read (17)

What can a sex addict do I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ order to be free from such act............pls ŊO̶̷̩̥̊͡ insult... Read (11)

Hm! Relationship or marriage is not easy at all. I' m really fighting hard these days to control myself frm cheating on my wife since i turned my life to God. 1st let me start by saying my sex drive is far higher than my wife. if i dn' t touch her for yrs, she won' t even bother make any move till she pai. d only times she made moves ws whn she wanted a baby badly & those are the few times i actually enjoyed sex with my wife cos she' s boring in sex & i' v talked to her abt i... Read (18)