I am sure a lyf tym commitment isn't sumtin 2 gamble wit n i try as much as possible 2 apply due deligence in my r/ship. I observe dt d gal i hope 2 settle wit always dnt want 2 talk abt her family. Thou she visited me lyk 3times n from my little observation, she seems 2 b 9ice bt we weren't opportune 2 date 4 long b4 distance seperated us. I knew her ryt frm schl but sincerely i dnt knw where she lives. If i want 2 c her i had 2 go 2 her office. Any tym i demand 2 speak wit her family member on fone she hesitate. Dis tins happen b4 i travel 2 my new base. I bliv d essence of courtship is 2 knw ur partner very well. If i cnt knw her while in d same city wit her how do i get 2 knw her now dt i'm in another city. D last tym we arranged 2 talk over fone, she didn't oblige when i reminded her d following day while online. She said, they had a visitor in d house. When i asked her who d visitor was? Till date no response. She claim 2 luv me bt i'm aware dt luv is blind bt marriage restore it sight! What do u think, what do i do? Pals, advice