I'm 30 yrs old recently finished nat. youth service n presently lookin 4 job. Actually, my priority ryt is gettin a job n probably settle down in d nearest future. D problem now is dat i hv being thinkin either 2 start lookin 4 dat special woman & serious r/ship 2wards when i'll get a job n ready 2 settle down or 2 put on hold searching 4 a serious r/ship till i secure a job n ready cos i've dis bliv dat now is d tym since i dnt hv a job 2 find true luv than when job n some cash start flowin & u see lots of gals around dat u hardly knw d true luv. Pls pals, ur candid advice