This isn' t something I' m proud of. For the first time of my life, I have made a bad choice. Highschool was pretty terrible for me, I didn' t like it at all. I wasn' t really good, I had bad grades, and it was mainly because of my laziness. Fortunaly I had friends, I still hang out with some of them, and I consider myself very lucky to have them. I had a long time best friend too, that I met when I was very young. With girls it was more complicated.. Before that time I already h... Read (7)

Im a 20 yr old male and since I was 16 Ive lied about my virginity. I almost lost it with a girl when I was 16 but something came up last minute. My friends were asking me about it and I didn' t want to admit what happened so I lied and said I did it. I was the first in my group of friends " to go through with it" and they thought I was really cool. The thing is, I find the whole process of making out and being naked really strange and I don' t enjoy being unclothed much. So I de... Read (5)

My best friend of several years has borderline personality disorder. She often has severe episodes in which she goes on emotional rampages, simultaneously self-destructing and taking it out on everyone around her. I have made a place for myself in her life as the person who has always been there. I have always been willing to go out of my way for her. However, it has begun to feel like more of an enslavement than a friendship. I have always cherished her friendship and still do (why else would I... Read (6)

I have OCD, depression and anxiety are killing me. i can' t live in a month without being depressed.. I' m sick, yet people won' t understand and can' t. Even my wife, who is pregnant for 8 months and I can' t give her any emotional supports yet I yell at her for not understanding me.. I started out nice, good first impression, good looking but suck at maintaining long term relationship. I always screw up great and healthy relationship that I built, its like a curse or someth... Read (6)

I HVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 3years now which his family and my family has agreed for us in geting married to each other, but now someting happen between us....for over a year now, my BOYFRIEND do keeps his dirty cloth for me to wash for him.....and i use to tell him that everytime that am washing ur cloths i hve not see even 5naira in ur pocket that is not fair and any time i comlain that to him he will say ohhh my love am sorry bcus i dont put my money in my pocket but in my wallet ......t... Read (18)

Pls i need an advice bcus my life is under fear, said by my girlfriend .....i was married. At my 14years old after the death of my parents...my uncle forced me into marital life...i born 2 kids for my husband and at age of 2 years my husband abandon me with two kids a girl and a boy...now i am above 30years i surfer by my self to bring up the kids now my first child is geting to 18years but there is no where to find their father but his friend do give a letter from my husband the content of his ... Read (11)

She made me angry and she expects me to pet her. though she might say it was a little thing but those little wrongs makes me angry and i've told her abt it to stop and 2moro she will do another one again. Pals pls, is it good i shld not be angry eachtime she do somthing wrong. How best can i make myself not to b angry all d time bcos it is now affecting my health. am always having headache.... Read (12)

pls, is it right for me to ask my fiancee to swear for me with Bible if she has not slept with any other man since she met. My fiancee went out by 11am with her friend yesterday and she came back around 7pm. i saw her friend in church today and we were chatting she told me they came back around 2pm. i dont knw where my fiancee went to and she never told me when she came back. i never for one day cheated on her b4.... Read (13)

my husband to be has this attitude that is making me sick. he gets angry out of Nothing over Nothing. i will not do anything wrong he will just be angry with me and he has been doing this. i have begged him to stop it yet he has not. this evening i came back from a female friend traditional marriage and i went to his house. He did not even noticed i came. He ignored me. He was alone. He Did not even tell me welcome, not even how did i go. i told him abt this traditional marriage 3days back. why ... Read (13)

Am in total confusion as I write. I have a gal that is Head over heal for me...(The Love no be shere shere) The problem here is that She already has a child with Her then boyfriend that cheated on her with her Bestfriend. . On the day we were to kick start on our lovery, she told me vehemently about the child She was having. . I love the gal, but not as same level as She reciprocate it to me. . The problem now are my people...; am soo damn sure my people will never accept the notion of me ma... Read (12)