Pls i need an advice bcus my life is under fear, said by my girlfriend .....i was married. At my 14years old after the death of my parents...my uncle forced me into marital life...i born 2 kids for my husband and at age of 2 years my husband abandon me with two kids a girl and a boy...now i am above 30years i surfer by my self to bring up the kids now my first child is geting to 18years but there is no where to find their father but his friend do give a letter from my husband the content of his letter goes this way .....Ruth pls if u see husband marry bcus i hve married ...i carry those kids settled u...bcus i abandoned u just to listen to my parents. Advice, they told me to marry from my tribe....that i am their only sone....and i hve waited so lond training the kids and i never give up....but since last year my friends advise me to get married....now almost men that comes to my life asking me for marriage ....wich i kicked out....until i met this guy about six months now we are in seriously relationship .....he hve ask my hands in marriage ...his family love me so much and now he has fix my weeding date......but my fear is that what wil i do to my kids? I hve already told him that my kids are my elder brothers. Kids.....and also tell him that i am 24 years old bcus of my body stature ....while his 29 years old....and for real we love each other ....but some time he wil say over his body he will marry a woman older than him and again is better to marry a prostitude who has repented than to marry a woman who hve kids bfore.....pls what wil i do my weeding is next month what wil i do? This is a true life story...help ls.