Good morning pals. After 7 years of marriage i left my wife ...
Good morning pals. After 7 years of marriage i left my wife with our 6yrs. baby boy nearly a year today out of anger and the fact that she was no longer respecting me as her husband though i have been giving her money for the upkeeping of my son. we are nigerians but based in europe and this is a lady i trained in school here b4 she now got a job and everything changed as she started working, one of the causes of our quarel was the much interference of her family into our marriage, she is more than attached to her single and iresponsable Brother and sister that in what ever desicion she takes concerning our family they must come in,her Dad and Mom back home are not good parents in the sense that she influences them with the money she earns and sends to them that they have Always supported her both when she is wrong,and i have Always asisted them financially,i opened a business for her Brother and he ate the money and never accounted for the capital i gave to him b4 i decided to quit i tried my best talking to her and her parents as to achieve peace in my family but nothing,am a born again christian and i hate domestic violence, many times she takes advantage of that, many times she starved me of sex for months knowing that i don't believe in adultry the last one that happened was last year summer we planned to go to paris for a Holiday and all of a sudden she now told me that she wanted to go alone, as i said no to that and insisted that either we all go together or nothing she told me that whether i like it or not she's moving, in that case i told her that if she moves alone a was going to qiut the marriage, without minding she left me with my son in the house and travelled 4 one week but b4 she got back i have rented another apartment and abandoned our former house for her, she got back and reported me to the police and forwarded a request for separation from her lawyer, now after much of our legal battle, i have been invited to come and sign officially for separation 2morrow and my problem now is my conscience and my son, my conscience because i met her when i had nothing and she supported me morally and accepted to marry me and today i own a company both here and in nigeria and am comfortable,i have never thought of enjoying my little wealth with any other woman if not her because of how we started. 2. when ever my son comes to spend time with me, at the end of the day he will refuse to go back to her mummy unless by force and he will cry and cry, few days ago for the first time he asked me Daddy why dont u make peace with mummy so that three of us will come back together, i have not had rest of mind since that day, i so love my son and i experienced a lot of open doors after his birth then i still have feelings for this lady that after 10 months i have not been able to get over the trauma and probably start a new life with another lady am 43yrs. and i think my life must go on but the problem is this feelings am still having for her and from the look of things she's not ready to change, i tried initially to make peace through some family friends but she refused to corporate and said that over her dead body will she come to apologise to me. Now i am confused and i need ur matured advices, thanks.

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