CAN U KEEP A GUY U LUV TO URSELF BY TELLING HIM U ARE A VIRGIN WHEN U ARE NOT?
I dated her for 3yrs with no sex cos she said she is a virgin, I luvd her & though I am not a virgin but I neva cheated on her,on d 4th year, we agreed to visit d Garden City on Val day as 2 mak it a memorable day.
Val dat year came, she came to my house & as agreed, we started d journey to visit Jeruselem, we were into each other wit deep romance,we were both naked, I was takin cautions cos she is a virgin, as we went deep into fore play, no need for condom, we trusted each other, in order to get her real wet, I spread her leg there on d bed, got down on my kneels, wit my tongue, I travelled thru her virgina city & made sure I visited all d bus stop in there, she was realy high cos d sun there became so hot that she couldnt hold it,she came in my mouth, I licked her d more wit her juicy & she became real soaked,she wanted me dat real bad dat after a litle ***** on my dickson, she ordered me into her city, I was taking it easy in order not to cause her much pain wen breaking her fragile gate,as I inserted my dickson into her vigina city, there was no gate, nt even a curtain,I went into d city wit out stress,I couldnt withdraw cos d pleasure was so high,after much forwarding & clearing in her virgina city,I had a great come,it was after den I asked her what happened to d padlock to her city,she broke down into tears, dat she is sorry, dat she didnt want to lose me,dat was why she lied to me dat she was a virgin, though she has been seeing other men within our years of dating, after much apologies & promises,I realy luv her, we continued.
6months later, she was hospitalized & I found out she tested HIV+, she apologized to me again, dat one of d guys she was sleeping wit died of HIV few months back, dat was when she knew that she might be HIV+, but she was afraid to tell me. She died few months later.

Since then I have not been able to go for HIV test, of what use when I know I am HIV + already? I will die soon. But my heart is shattered, she claimed she luvd me, she didnt want to lose me, she was seeing other men but told me she was a virgin.

1. Is being a virgin enough reason to use to keep a guy to urself?

2. If u were in my shoe, what will be ur next steps of action?