I Just finished my service this year and after So many appli...
I Just finished my service this year and after So many applications and interviews, I got a job in a Multinational company in Lagos.

During my service in Abuja, I ran into my secondary school friend Who resides in Abuja,the communication became stronger that we became closer,now due to my job,we are now separated by distance, he has proposed or will I say promised marriage to me,but he said I should quit d job in Lagos and come to Abuja to find one there So that we can work towards our marriage /wedding.
But he knew How I suffered to get d job, I went to So many interviews in Abuja Which most ended up that I should sleep with one or two persons b4 I can get d offer, now he wants me to quit d job with d getting married to me as an excuse. Am 28years.
What should I do? I love him but is it right to quit my job for marriage when he hasn't even fixed d date?
I can't b depending on him to have my needs met.
Even if I have to quit my job to stay in same place with my man,should it b b4 wedding or after wedding?
What's ur take on dis? What if he disappoints me?
natasha - Lagos
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