HELLO ALL. PLS NEED SOME MOTIVATION. AM A NICE, COOL AND HANDSOME GUY. WITH A GOOD HEART. BUT SOMETIMES I FEEL AM NOT OF THIS WORLD. Y? I DO NOT KNOW. I FIND IT HARD TO COMMUNICATE TO PEOPLE I DONT KNOW WHICH I BELIVE IS AS A RESULT OF MY UPBRING FORM MY PARENT. AS A CHILD BACK DEN WHEN I WAS ABOUT 4-7YRS MY PARENT ALWAYS DONT ALLOW ME MAKING FRIENDS. THEY ALWAY KEEP ME INDOORS ALL BECAUSE THEY DONT WANT ME TO BE BADLY INFLUENCED AND THIS HAS GROWED UP WITH ME AND I THINK ITS AFFECTING ME NOW. P... Read (13)

if u findout dat d woman u want 2 marry is dating another man or shld i say cheating on u. wht will u do. u love her nd u never cheated on her. she is d only woman in ur life.... Read (13)

I want to get married to my 6 yes best friend, we love each other and we admitted it 3 years ago. I' m 20 and he is 21. I' m in my going to my 4th year of university, and he his working as a chef since he went to a culinary Institute. My dad said it OK to get married, but he will stop paying my school fees which is almost 8000$ every year. (Which means I have to pay for my last year of uni myself) My mother said he is Igbo and I' m Yoruba so she doesn' t approve him to be my husb... Read (15)

pals pls i need ur help!..........i had sex twice at a tender age nd its nw affecting me nw,i always feel lyk avin sex every now nd den...pls pals is der any drug dat i can use to kill dis feeling of mine(of aving sex)...no insult pls... Read (20)

It amaze me dat i av spent almost a yr in Lagos without a job. I came earlier dis yr after my nysc 2 get even if itz a menial job but cudn' t get any. I am now thinkin of goin bak Kaduna where i come from... Read (9)

pls pal i dont want insult but gud advise. am in relationship wit a guy he said he love me, he used to come to my place but he has neva invited me to his house also his Mum said dat he must marry his tribe to d extent dat she have arranged for him só am confused... Read (16)

gud day every1. Am depressed bt i wud try 2 make my story as comprehensive as posible. We met last yr, we bcame fond of eachoda n fell in luv. Am 21 he is 24, den i was in my final yr n he was roundin up his n.d 2. We do discus abt our future n in one of such discusions he told me dat he still hv a long way 2 go. Bt i dint see it dat way, i was down 4 wateva i cud 2 make it wrk cos dis guy is hardworkin n caring i evn jokingly told him dat his family wont suffer or hunger, cos he tries 2 always ... Read (20)

is it right for a man 2 investigate if his fiancee is cheating on him. if it is not right, how then do d man knw if she is cheating on him or not. dis is not abt trust. some ladies do take d advantage of d trust nd do tins at d back of d man.... Read (16)

pls i need advice, i broke up wit my girl yesterday based on de advice receive from dis forum though we ar working in desame company cos i helped her got de job... presently i cant stand de sight of seeing her opposite my table everyday.... it reminds me of de past and killing me inwardly and emotional cos i truelly love her.... pls pal advice me on wat to do to make de feelings go away and also heal de heart break.... thankyou... Read (20)

It' s bn a year nw dat we' v started datn nw n i love him so much. Eva since we' v started i do visit him bt av neva tasted water in his house nt 2 talk of eatn. My friend z he may nt be happy abt dis dat he is jst pretendn dat he luvs me. I am confuse cos i luv dis guy n i dnt want 2 lose him bt i dnt like eatn outside. Is it compulsory i eat in his house?... Read (12)