gud day every1. Am depressed bt i wud try 2 make my story as comprehensive as posible. We met last yr, we bcame fond of eachoda n fell in luv. Am 21 he is 24, den i was in my final yr n he was roundin up his n.d 2. We do discus abt our future n in one of such discusions he told me dat he still hv a long way 2 go. Bt i dint see it dat way, i was down 4 wateva i cud 2 make it wrk cos dis guy is hardworkin n caring i evn jokingly told him dat his family wont suffer or hunger, cos he tries 2 always put tins 2geda. N weneva am @ crossroads i count on him 2 give candid advise. All dese made me fall head ova head 4 him dat i began 2 c him as a potential husband. He given introduces me as his wife 2 pipo. U knw i was drowning in dis feelin. Den one day my dad called me dat i hv a suitor frm London,bt dat wasn't in my plan cos i dnt evn knw dis guy n my dad was kinda pressurizin me so i felt depressed n decided 2 tell my bf. Wen i did he told me 'i still hv a long way 2 go' and 'u knw women hv expiring date'. U knw dis words pierced my hat cos i luv dis guy, hv neva demanded 4 money or material tins 4rm him cos i knw he is still startin life, n i evn try 2 contribute in terms of biz idea. Am dis kinda person dat blivz dat if i start up wit d man i luv he wud value me more in d future. Bt here i am being dismissed i feel so bad nw cos tho he told me d truth i jst cant take dis bitter pill. D london guy is 15yrs older dan me n inshort i dnt evn it wrkin out. Nw i hv dis feeling dat any guy dat comes 2 me again must be made both financially n odawise am gona kill dis luv. Pals wat advise do u hv 4 me cos nw am soo depressed!