Pls i need ur honest advice on this...... <br /> A girl & i ...
Pls i need ur honest advice on this......
A girl & i met each other when she & her brother visited my house long ago in 2008, then after the visit we became friends & later turned to lovers. we fell in love & loved each other so very much. The relationship lasted for two good years, until her sisters & mother forced her into early marriage just because they don't have the money to train her in skul & she was just 17yrs old then. She refused & wanted to run to me but couldn't cos of my family & i was still living with my parents then, & she abandoned her admission in d university & forcefully married d man, thinking that the man will train her in skul. But as time goes on everything went bad. No skul, the man cheats & beat her up all the time, at times he locks her up in a room like a prisoner.
Sometimes she felt like killing herself when she realised that her family have deceived her & sold her out.
But now she have found her way back to me, the she truly love..... And she wants to leave d man & marry me, even though she had 2 kids for man, she still need me in her life. There is no joy & happiness in d marriage with d man. The man sleeps around with everything in skirt & even bring women to the house. He also slept with d girls brothers wife in their house & also sleeps frequently with her niece that was living with them. And she's now tired of all these & want out.

She & i have a Son now, a handsome baby boy & we are seriously engaged & planning for our marriage registry.
But the issue now is how to break the news to our parents that we want to get married & i've also invited my mum to come to my place next month so that she can meet the woman that i want to marry.
We love each other so very much & we are ready for the sacrifice it will take to have a happy home together.

Pls your own view & opinion is welcomed. Thanks.

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