Growing up was not easy cos my siblings and I were kids when...

Growing up was not easy cos my siblings and I were kids when we lost our father but to the glory of God and thanks to my mum, I'm a graduate today. Now I feel like giving back to my mum and siblings but there is no job out there. There is a man that's been disturbing me for the past two years now, he is older by 14yrs,he is very okay(if u know what I mean by that) I was like he is too old, that's why I couldn't date him then, he told me he is very serious and wants to marry me. I have a boyfriend that doesn't stay in d same state with me, he doesn't even know when he will settle down, I've caught him cheating so many times but he is always claiming he loves and want to settle down with me though he doesn't know when, d distance between us is really straining our relationship, my problem now is who do I go for, my bf or the older guy who is ready to set a business up for me and marry me this year.
Note: I'm not a kind of person that double date, I only go for a guy at a time.
matured advice only please.

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