Hi pals. I met dis guy in my church,he was humble and I liked him and things fell into place jus as I expected and he asked mi out, I accepted and we starting dating. We were so in luv. I was in 300l then, he works and his salary was 40k. I was not demanding from him bcos I always believe dat I could finished sku soon and get a nice job, he give mi money 4 transport whenever I come 2 visit him from sku bcos my sku is like 2hrs from home. Then in my final year, I went 2 visit him as usual after having fun, cooking, eating etc, he knelt down and said he want 2 tell mi something, I asked him he said his ex has a 5yrs old son 4 him and dat since we wil be getting married he felt I should kno, I was sad @ first then I accepted him again and we were happy. Three months later he called mi and said his ex was bringing his son 2 see him. She lives like 3 states away. I told him no problem bcos I trust him. During her visit he calls mi as usual so there was no cause 4 alarm. After her visit I couldn't go 2 visit him bcos I was busy with my final exams, project etc. And we didn't see like 2 months, then I was 2 defend my project on a thursday in sku and it was on a wednesday, we talked 4 a long time on phone sweet words, hw he missed mi, I should finished up quickly n come back home and we said nite nite around 10pm 4 mi 2 study more. I woke around 5am and saw a text msg on my phone. I opened it, it was him, it read Baby I am sorry I couldn't wait 4 you 2 come from sku I had 2 tell you dis my ex is preganant 4 mi. I couldn't believe my eyes I called him immediately he wasn't picking. I tried severally no response. I cried my eyes out. My friends and neighbours consoled mi and I managed 2 go defend my project in sku. I continue calling him,sending text messages no response. I came back home went 2 his house, he said he didn't want 2 talked about it dat he is sorry. I was shattered and heartbroken. I stayed @ home 4 a while and engage myself in learning hw 2 sew before youth service. Before I went 4 service I could call him, he won't pick. Then I went 4 service 2 states away, my sixth month in service I received a text from him !!! Baby I missed you, can we talk, I didn't reply. Then he send another one d next day, Baby I was jus trying our luv my ex wasn't preganant 4 mi. I didn't reply either. He started calling and texting dat I should forgive him 4 d text he sent mi. I have told him I m no longer interested in him and I have moved on he has refused 2 let mi be, his calls irritates mi, I am tru with service and I am managing somewhere, he kept coming 2 our house and my mum still thinks we r together. I am confused of what 2 do with him, I have someone I am considering now and I don't want him 2 spoil things 4 mi. Bcos he shows up everywhere I am. I really need 2 get him off my back, need your advice pls. Thank you 4 reading my confession.