Hello pals, I'm a 30 year old man. I have a girlfriend I want to marry next year and she is my first ever girlfriend . The problem here is that she said we should not have sex until marriage since we both have never had sex in our lives, I'm not comfortable with that but I agreed to go into relationship with her which is now 4 years old. Since two years now I've been having serious urge for sex. I beg her to allow us have sex to release me of the pressure but she always refuse and stand on her words that till marriage. Please pals, now I can't sleep at night because of constant election and I don't want to cheat on her.
My question now is since I've never had sex with her, will it still be called cheating if I should find another girl that can help me out of this sexual urge? Pls I'm suffering here help a friend with an advice that will be useful. Thanks