All my life everything has been fast, especially my education and relationship. I started dating while I was 16 n I never dated a student till i met my present bf. All my relationships crumble because I wasn't ready for the next step.
My present bf represents everything I was not used to when it comes to relationships. I am some months older than him, I am richer (because we only spend his money. lol), I was some classes ahead of him in uni, I accepted to date him bcos he really "chased me" and was romantic and he wasnt intimidated. At first, I was ashamed of our relationship n I thought I would lose interest in him when i left uni bt I didnt n I started loving him more than i ever loved any other guy i dated. I wore my relationship with pride, to me he was too good to be true. Whenever I make plans, I consider him too. I was so happy when he was to graduate, I even had a small party for him n his friends ( I dont like his friends they are too childish). When it was time for him to serve i was already working something out, and i needed his input bt he was always evasive. I am not d type of girl that checks her bf's phone bt we were free with one another's phone we just dont check.
On one of those particular days i picked up his phone and a msg came from one of his friend(d only one I like) i just decided to chat with him and d msg that came in reads "guy u suppose don tell her since naa" Dat night my bf told me he never graduated from uni. I cried all night, some people might not see it as a big deal but for me it is.
I didnt leave him, I tried to persuade him to go bck to school bt he wont. I am chasing my career now, I am presently doing a professional course and my schedule has been tight, my bf who presently does nothing (apart from his investment that fetches him money) is always picking fights with me, the last time he was really pissed when i replied his message with "I'll call you, I'm at lectures"
I am getting tired, he fights me at every opportunity he gets and it stresses me out.