se pals help me out with this issue bothering me for the pas...
se pals help me out with this issue bothering me for the past two days. I date a lady for almost 7 years of my life. Last two years ago she gained admission to Poly for her ND program. During those days of her studies she cheated on me wit a guy who she called her mere friend. The worst she did was to tell the so-called guy to called and me and lie to me that they are just school friends. Along the line I discovered when she contacted gornohea diseases from the guy. It was heartbroken when I learned that. Apparently she has been staying with this guy occasionally balling on the little change I gave her for feeding. I caught her redhanded on one occasion with the guy escorting her to hostel early morning after night out together. That sight broke me apart. It was an absolute nightmare for me last year. We broke up for about four months . January this year we made up again due to my friends intervention but the trust is gone anyway. Now the issue is that she is going back for HND program this November and she wants me to foot her bills because her parents broke financial wise. Now I gave her my plan if she want my support we should get committed either by engaging or having issue for me as that will not stop her education whatsoever. Alas she declined. Since two days ago she hasn't called back or say hi. This is a girl I love all my life. Pals have a made a wrong move by asking for commitment or what. Am broken now because who you love atimes might not return the love. Life is unfair to me. Am 28 she is 23.plses advice

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