So, i met TY some years back and we hit it off quite well. We were inseparable and we loved each other very much to the best of my knowledge. We dated for close to 3 years and we had no serious issue. I would go to where he worked for his sister and spend almost all my day with him and sometimes wait till he closes, we would talk about getting married and how many kids we wanted. There was this girl who would come to get something there and she would give me this strange look, i told TY about it and he said thats the way she behaves and i would just ignore her. Along the line, i went to school for close to six month and when i came back, i heard he got the same girl i was'nt comfortable with pregnant. It was the greatest shock of my life, i was thrown off balance, i couldnt breathe, my head was spinning fast and i wanted to faint. When i confirmed it and asked him, he said it happened once and when he found out she was pregnant he told her he wasnt ready because he didnt plan it, she insisted and there was nothing he could do about it, so she had the baby. My friends would tell me that the lady planned it that was why she insisted. At first i was angry but with time i got over it and i forgave him and we just became friends. So, i went visiting him at his shop one day and we were talking, she came in and i greeted her but the way she eyed me and ignored me was what killed me that day. It was clear TY noticed it and he tried covering it but my countenance changed and i wasnt myself anymore so i left. Since that day i have'nt been to see him or pick his call. Tell me, should i stay away from him or totally ignore her? N/B he is not yet married to her