i have severally tried to talk sense into her to take things easy, that at the right time plus hard work, i will be successful and make money for her......but all fell to a deaf ear. We are undergraduates and tis been 2years of our relationship. At the initial stage, we started smoothly and i never pretended nor hid anything away from her...she knows all about me even before we fell in love, of which she agreed to take me the way i am. Am nt all that financially bouyant. Things are getting sour now although she still insist am the one she loves and wants to be with. But she wont stop complaining and comparing me to her friend whom her boyfriend do larvish with gifts. Always reminding me of my failed financial responsbilities. At first, it was kinda a motivation for me to work harder but now tis getting to be a serious distraction to my academic works, especially now she is on my neck. I need ur advise please my lovely pals...