sometimes pray for those who hurt you badly. you might not know their situation and the evil force driving them to their poor decision they are taking. bless those that hurt, if you keep cursing they will hurt other lives, if you pray for them you might save them from destroying themselves and also hurt others. I have never forgotten how a grown-up guy sexual assaulted me, when I complain people blame me and said I deserve it. I cried and thought about it for many years about the incident, thinking what should I have done to not letting that situation occurring in the first place. I realised this situation it was out of my control and there was nothing I could have done as the guy was stronger than me, (but atlas I give God all the glory) This guy went his way and start spreading lies against me, calling me an Ashawo and all that. I cried bcos nobody understood my pain. He got a girlfrnd and she joined him to insult me, I kept quiet bcos I know he is simply a douchebag and worthless.( & he ll self-destruct) Not too long they broke up bcos he was beating her like an animal then I became counsellor her friends were running to tell their mess. She left him and married someone else. Anyway as for that idiot that sexually assaulted me I have not forgotten oooo but I have forgiven him to enable move forward in life. I believe in one principle that whatever a man sows that shall he reap. You might be hurting now and your enemy might be rejoicing. I am telling you that God ll not tarry to answer your prayer. we are nothing but dust in the hands of the creator never envy evil men becos their reward is so near. now let's move on................... .......