some of the lies people say: You have to know the woman or man b4 you marry her. Don't forget their idea of knowing is sleeping with the lady/man (in most cases i.e 99% of the time) Have you realise that dating someone for long doesn't guarantee the success of a marriage but rather even depreciate the love. I have seen cases where a man dates a lady for 5 years or more but immediately they got married they didn't last for a year. In most cases we see all the flaws in our partner and ignore them thinking that they will change with time only to realise that they never changed but remained the same.(change is a decision don't force it and stop hoping. if you cant take it move on) Now back to the issue of dating is it even worth it. In my opinion I ll say you don't have to date someone for 2 to 6 years or more to get married. When you meet the man/woman who is truly your's he/she wont keep you for forever to tie the knot. he/she knows right away bcos the connection is just there. Before you go with the decision of marriage please seek God's face and ask for direction. Note: Dont leave in fornication and be praying. short cut is what have destroy and cause many unhappy homes today.