I’m writing you because right now I’m kind of in a situation where I know something, but I don’t know if I should say something. I am a newly divorced woman. While married I became friends with another married couple through my ex-husband. We would go on outings together, have dinners, and even movie nights whenever we could find the time. I became really good friends with “Tia.” We spent an adequate amount of time together. I was there with her through her miscarriage, and her husband... Read (13)

since i started dating my fiancee i have been d one making peace eachtime we have problem even when am not at fault. My fiancee does not care if we stay enternity witout settling d problem. Pls pals, do you think am doing d right thing. Shld i start ignoring her eachtime we have problem again.... Read (11)

i think i made a mistake by making my fiancee to know i love and care for her so much, bcos i feel she does not love me d way i love her. Am doing my possible best to make things workout as we planned but on her side she does not even want to know and dis make me to feel bad atimes. She behaves as if she has Alternative, dat even if d relationship does not work she dont mind. I have told her abt dis and she did not say anything. I have told my parents dat we will be going to their house for d in... Read (13)

I am in a dilemma. My wife is very unhappy and I feel that we are not going to make it. To start from the beginning, I met my wife 3 years ago while we both were working. She was in grad school working part-time and I worked part-time outside of my full-time job. When I met her I was going through a separation, and awaiting the 90 days to file for divorce. When I first saw her I knew and felt she was the one for me. She was so independent and self-efficient I thought I wouldn’t have a chance w... Read (13)

Pls pals am in a mess. I met a girl last 3 months who didn't have anything to do. I tried securing a job for her which was successful afterall. One thing led to the other I slept with her. Now she is pregnant. I don't know what to do and am ready for marriage yet because I still face some family problems that are yet to be resolved. She can't afford to loose d job as a result of the pregnancy. Am a christian I hate abortion. Please brothers and sisters help me am in a dilemma.... Read (27)

good morning 9ja Pals, I like to marry a beautiful girl with a god fearing heart but most time i meet a beautiful girl - virtuous mind is absent (a cheat). and the once with Godly character are not beautiful as i want! i don' t want to be married and still be having extra marital affairs, thats why am taking my time... pls christ Believers in this forum, your advise is needed. am a guy of almost 34 and by the grace of God am doing well finacially to start up a family. God bless u all.... Read (18)

I have been with this guy for about 9 months now, he calls me regularly, sends me gift, he knows almost everything about me, I know most things about him. we dont get tired of talking to each other. I simply love him, n every passing day I love him more which is not common in my past relationships, I usually lose interest within 3 months. the problem is I am his side chick, he told me he has another lady in his church, he doesn't talk about her, anytime I ask about her he simply says "... Read (18)

Pls I have been pounding this within my self, but I wont to share it with you. A question. If death should start killing in ascending order A-Z what wil be your name? Wil it stil be ur name? Tell us!... Read (9)

Please I need advice urgently there is this girl from my maternal home I met in port Harcourt we were just friends then when my elder brother told me I can' t date her because she is my grand mum ,I was still in school as at dat time and I adhere to his words,now am done with school gotten a good job and they are asking me to marry ,this same girl is who I have in mind to marry beside the very girl is not from my mum' s village but same LGA and my bros is still saying he doesn' t wan... Read (14)

As man when you no longer see those good character and Atittude she has dat made you to proposed to her and she accepted wht will you do. Not minding dat you have dated her for four years now and you have informed you people dat you are getting married to her dis year. You have called her and told her dat she has changed and she said she has not but you are very very sure dat she has changed from who you knew before to another person.... Read (7)