My pals Compliment of d season 2 u all! Pls I hv dis issues bordering me. My man I had a baby 4 dcivd me into d r/ship we ar 2day. I feel so cos we dnt hv a romantic atmosphere in our stay 2geda. He knew me in my 1st marriage even wit pregnancy. I left dat hom 4 like 12yrs b4 we met agn. He knew I hv a baby bt he had 2 kids b4 we met n he dint tell me. We were preparing 4 marriage wen I got preg witin 3months of our knowing after our both families hv acepted us 2geda. Issues came up dat d dwery ws nt paid bt tho we liv in same apartment. Nw d issue is this; d second wman dat had d 2nd baby, he still si her n slips wit her, he had oda wmen he sees n promises marriage. Wenever he is out if I call he doesn't pik bt wud leta call bk. He had sed a time ago dat I'm older dan d wife he desires 2 marry. Nw we ar in a cordial r/ship bt nt fully comftable wit each oda bt coz of d baby we tolerate each oda. Nw my question is can this lid 2 a good end? Major issues dat concerns me is nt his problem. E.g he prefare 2 solve his siblings problems n dat of d oda wman n oda girls out dere wen I asked he sed I wok n hv money 2 care 4 myself but odas dnt, we are in same hous n odas are nt, no prayers 2geda n all dat. Presently, I'm tinkin of parking out bt pple sed I shld bear but, it pleases me more 2 liv dan 2 stay. Each time I make attempt 2 liv, he calms me dwn wit actions n soft words. Bt he is a poligamist as I hv realised. I can't stay wit him in dis status. Wat do I do in dis situation pals? I nid good advice frm d hous, pls.