Right now... I've lost it! I'm so confused.. Why can't on...
Right now... I've lost it! I'm so confused.. Why can't one just have a simple life? Okay, here is the issue : I've been a decent and God-fearing Boy since my childhood and quite good looking (which is becoming a problem) . I've never woo a girl in my life neither have I ever had a gf, because I've placed my career a top priority and I do not wanna get involved in fornication cus I love and fear God. That aside..... The issue is, girls wouldn't just let me be! Its becoming like a curse.. just recently, a girl went about telling people that I'm her Boy friend.. This is a person I have no iota of romantic feelings for. Talk less about asking her out. I confronted her and she went about jeopardizing my name to my course mates.. Another one calls me like every second to say nothing important! I told her to give me some breathing space only for the kid to start crying! (she's 18).. The most annoying one is a particular girl I was actually being nice to because she lost her dad... She's trying to take advantage of me being a Christian.. She knows I can't ignore her even if she misbehaves because its a sin to keep malice. Nonetheless, this girl said she wants me to be present whenever she needs me.. She said I'm the only friend she likes.. She gets angry whenever she sees me with my friends (including males).. She's usually isolated and hardly makes friends.. When ever I'm not with her and she sees me laughing with people, she'll walk up to me and tell me that she hates me.. Just imagine! This girl is trying to run my life! I could easily send her to hell but she says am the only one who makes her forget the incident of her dad. She likes holding my hand whenever we walk (And I dislike this so much) people are already thinking we're dating and this is very bad for the image I'm trying to build. I wanna represent Christ properly, buh people now see me as a badt guy with the way girls flock around me. I'm just a child.. Just 19.

I wanna serve God and be free.. .. How do I keep girls from liking me?

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