good evening, I really need your help urgently in making a d...
good evening, I really need your help urgently in making a decision. I recently left a relationship and I have decided to give myself some time before I get into a new one. Not long after, I met this guy who came off to be a very gentleman who lived for and loved God. He spoke to me about relationships and dating and that he really needed to be in a relationship with me and I told him truthfully that I wasn't ready to start this whole thing again. We became friends I started visiting him at his workplace.
But there is gentleman there that is always passing comments that seem as if he's trying to send a message across to me anytime I go there. One day on one of such visits the gentleman said something that made me visit my friend's IG page and I found something revealing. He apparently posted pics of his gf (meanwhile he said he wasn't dating) and kept promoting her business on his page.
He asked me out for lunch one afternoon and whilst we were eating he told me that he's decided to get back into a relationship with his ex.
I congratulated him and asked her name just to confirm if she was the person I suspected on his page. Lo and behold it was her. He later told me that they were going.
Just today, he called to say that since I'm not working, there an opportunity in his office (he is the CEO), and that I should come for an interview tomorrow which I gladly accepted at first. But upon chatting with him concerning it, I realised his gf is the person going to interview me.
I really need your suggestions as to whether I should go for the interview or not.
P. S. The guy and I are only friends and at the point he told me he was in a relationship, I kept my distance because I didn't want to come between them

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