Am a dude who' s an introvert, one who' s so scared to ask a lady out. It really bothers me because presently, I' ve got plans of settling down soon and am scared of ending up with someone who' s isn' t really what I wanted. I have a clear view of the kind of class of lady I really do want but whenever I see anyone that' s in that category i get frozen up until am gone past the moment. My confidence is really low. I sometimes do get the green light from these ladies espec... Read (4)

So basically, I have been talking to a guy I met on Instagram since June of this year. I live in Milan, and he was supposed to come see me in August but due to his busy schedule with work, he couldn’t make it. So since I’m coming to Nigeria for Christmas, we decided to meet up in Nigeria. I’m not coming for him, i had already planned on coming for my friends wedding. So anyways, this guy seems to really like me. He’s 42 while I just turned 23. I kind of feel weird because of the age diff... Read (5)

I think am very stupid and selfish person. Am a serving corper, married and my husband just found out today that they are paying me 30K in my PPA. I lied to him that they are not paying me and he believed it and placed me on monthly payment. He has been an awesome hubby ever since we got married last year. We have been best of friends and we promised not to lie or hide anything. I don' t even know what led me not to tell him the truth. I guess I was listening to a friend' s advice. Naija... Read (12)

Good Afternoon to all great IQ in relationship and romances in the house. Am in LOVE with a lady and she also loves me too. But i had a challenge with her. She used to tell me that am not ROMANTIC WITH WORDS and she would smile politely. This gives me alot of concern. Pls what are the best romantic words and how can i go about it? Pls i need your Advice. Thanks a lot.... Read (9)

I am at the lowest hebb of my life now, nothing excites me any longer. Have lost everything in life. Right from my childhood, have been unlucky. I missed an opportunity to gain admission into Unibadan in 2008 having being luckily called for admission among many applicants.Got to know later after the exercise had finished. It was devastating. Later I got admission the following session but through distance learning mode.My life started smoothly until I joined army 2012.I served for some years bef... Read (9)

Please I need your advice! I have a widowed sister who lost her husband a year ago. she has 4 kids ( 2 girls and 2 boys) aged between 18 and 9 years old to care for now and her husbands gratuity just got paid to her. She has asked me to advice her on what kind of business do with the money and i don' t want to miss guide her on this, so i have come to this platform to seek better heads for advice on this. kindly advice on what sought of business N 500,000 can do that would can bring a good t... Read (4)

I want to run mad now . My wife just gave birth our son is 3 weeks and my mum came for omuguw, so she has been with us for few weeks now . My mum called me yesterday as I came back from work to tell me that my wife is cheating on me , I did not understand, then she added that there is this man that use to come to the house each time i have gone to work ,acting like and electrician , and she notice that by the time she wakes up from sleep the ma is gone . Until yesterday she refused to eat anythi... Read (5)

I' ve been single since January, I came out of a serious relationship due to some family issues and since then relationship hasn' t been in my favour.. There' s this particular guy have known for years (over 5years) he has been on my issue,I pended his request because he' s this kind of on and off guy so I never saw him as someone that truly love me but we are friends.... Fast forward to July.. He came up with it again and claiming to be single so I said yes but communication has... Read (9)

I just put to bed 3 weeks ago and I have my Mother-in-law with me for “Omugwo”. She’s really a nice person except that she’s beginning to really get in my nerves. I recently started expressing breast milk for my bay for freezer storage (i use a manual breast pump). How this work’s is whenever baby is hungry, which is usually every 15 minutes, his milk will be warmed and fed to him. And this also helps train him to use the feeding bottle since I’m on the exclusive plan. (sorry for the... Read (4)

Confession room is so dry these days is unbelievable. Admin you guys need to keep this room entertaining like it used to be in those days when Naija pals first started.... Read (3)