Why do most men take good, hardworking ladies for granted? ...Here’s my story, I’d be 26 in a few days. there’s this guy I’ve been seeing for a while, he’s in the states and I’m back here in Nig, we have been together before he traveled, we’ve always been on and off, he’d just disappear and reappear anytime he see me doing pretty well for myself. I run an online store, I’m more introverted and I have just few friends. So recently things weren’t going quite well and my phone crashed, I had to use money from my business to get a new one and it really affected it My BF on the other hand sometimes ask me about it but he’s not willing to help in anyway .. he has a good job, he has the money because he tells me about most of his transactions. My sis once had accommodation ish in school and I needed just 20k to balance up, I told him about it he said he didn’t have and the following day transferred 100k plus to his mom for shopping ...I am not a liability, I’m not demanding and I’m even willing to do something for myself, all I want is just a little support. I come from a struggling family.. back to now I told him about my birthday, told him I needed to get a few stuff, I actually had it in mind to add it to the money for my business ..oga told me he had just 3500 to spare lmao like wth!! And since then he’s not really been talking to me and he’s recently talking to me about marriage, I’m pretty sure if I’m able to struggle my way through and try to put the pieces together which is usually difficult Because no one is willing to help now he’d come back again and start preaching about how he sees his future with me .. I’m someone who don’t believe in someone changing a particular thing about them after marriage ..but can I really settle with someone like this if he’s indeed serious about Marriage?