i met a guy online last year Nov, we got talking, started o...

i met a guy online last year Nov, we got talking, started online dating January, nd it was serious than i thought. Everything was fine, he promised to relocate to Nigeria by April from Spain. He didn't and since then, we have been having different issues everyday, he pick offence in anything i say or do, he said he has alot bothering him, i shouldnt be offended, that he would disclose them to me when we see, any small agruement, he would yell at me so loud, and even block me, he would be wrong and i would be the one to apologise, today we are fine, the other day, he would block me, even after wronging me.
I got tired of everything and started datting one of my suitors here in Nigeria, he was serious, ready and good, i told him about my relationship, he laughed it that it isnt a relationship, someone i haven't even seen, i like him at first, but later feel in love with him, he told me his plan to get married this year, so we can travel together, nevertheless, i made my spain boyfriend my priority, he got jealous and told me to choose between the both of them, i told him to give me time, he said he prayed abt it and we are good to go, while thinking on what to do, my spain bf made life tiring for me, we gisted abt cashew nut, and i told him i prefer groundnut to it, he said "that is how Nigeria girls form", maybe i have even hawk cashew nut before, i felt offended and told him we would talk later, he just blocked me instantly after d call, i didnt even begged him and have made up my mind to be with my new bf...
Last week friday, i went to vigil, after the program on Saturday, i was so tired nd it was raining heavily since it was close to my bf place, i decided to rest b4 going home, i called, he ended my call and his phone was switched off, the security allowed me inside the estate,the door was opened, i enter his room and he was there naked with another woman... he came to meet me in the parlour, i didn't even say anything, i left and it was still raining, he didnt even follow me, am sure we went back to contine his sexual activites, you all know how heavy last week saturday downpour was, he called and apologise, but tuesday, i forgave him,

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