Needed to air this, so to know if am trading the right path ...

Needed to air this, so to know if am trading the right path or not.
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I was introduced to a gal around Mid February by my African boss; cus I work in an indian company.
as time goes on I fell in Love with this gal.., and She did as well.
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But what is daunting my mind about this relationship is that, She already has a child out of wed-lock.
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I noticed this her child doesnt like her biological father, but likes me.
People around that knows am not the biology father seeing this always wants me to marry the mother...; cus am just too perfect in al spheres....: Gentility, Coolness, Sincerity, etc just name it.
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But my worry now is that..., I stay far away from my people.., and am planning on applying for my LEAVE from the company in October or November this year; and iVe be going with her to show Her to my people.
Am afraid if my people would accept her for the fact She already with a child.
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This gal love me soo much...!!! i sent her pix to my people, and they all liked Her for the fact that She has this natural beauty..., but am afraid they might flicker if i tell them or they find out she already a mother to a child.
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Pls I want u guys SAY on this..., cus I love dis gal soo dearly..., and She's the type that u can never find a fault in Her..; She's social, and loved by ALL.
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Pls advice a brother.

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