Here's my confession. i'm in love with a guy 10years older than I am. We were plain friends for about 5months before he suggested we take it to "another level" which I readily agreed. Then he told me he was in a relationship with a lady. All through those five months I wasn't aware, he doesn't talk about her, I don't even know what she looks like. He said d relationship doesn't count. it's been a year since we've been dating. Anytime I try to switch d conversation n probe into "d relationship" he just goes off on me, or ignores my question, sometimes, he just tells me directly to forget about it. I tried to question him last night, he told me point blank to forget about it. how long wud I continue to endure d fact dat he is another relationship? so I broke up with him. He has sent me several messages, telling me he cares n wud do anything I say. d fact DAT i'm 21 doesn't mean i'm stupid. does he expect me to ask him to leave d other lady for me, I am sure he cares abt me, bt I know over 10guys DAT care too. I hope i'm right...cos I miss him already.