WHAT ELSE IS LOVE?
Jan. 17th 02:52 PM 2008
I once had a girl friend whom I thought I would have married, I loved her from my heart, I was everything to her. She couldn’t imagine life without me. But I was to go for my NYSC and she cried hell , that I even joined, I promised to always come home no matter the cost , which I meant very bite of what I said. When I left, she traveled only to return the day I came back to see her. On my return, she started complaining of her menstrual period, but claimed it happens to every woman, that all she needed was just an injection. I gave her money for it. She started avoiding me till I went back to where I was serving angrily. Her closet friend who was like an elder sis to her kept asking her what was wrong when she started noticing changes on her body she kept saying thing was wrong till after four months she now ran to her to confess. When I was told, I asked who was responsible , she said I was the one, knowing full well I wasn’t the one and that that shouldn’t be the case then but how to help her out of the situation, her friend gave her money to go for D&C and she went out and was advised by friend and she used the money for another injection which did not work too. Later she was taken to the hospital and the doctor said to avoid complications that she need to be injected so she can deliver it normally. That was done and I took care of the bills and later on her birthday I asked her the question again, she told me that the pregnancy belonged to the aunty’s husband which she visited immediately I left for NYSC. That was y she couldn’t face me all the while cos she knew what good I did for her . I forgave her but asked her to do three things for me, 1. Go and pray and ask God for forgiveness of sins. 2. Go and tell the mum that I wasn’t the person responsible and that the truth has been said , then after that call me and I’ll speak to the mum and tell her that I’ve heard and forgiven her, and wanna go on with the relationship, 3. Go to a Laboratory where my uncle works for general check up incase there were some complications, we take care of it while its still young. U can’t believe that two year later she has refused to do all these , reason, NOTHING. What else would I have do. Is it not enough love?
