things to understand about mariage
Mar. 7th 02:55 PM 2013
If you think marriage is for keeps, here're 10 plus One ways to keep your marriage strong and rocking.1. Know that the romance and passion of the early days will sooner or later fizzle out. Instead of moping for that lost passion, recall the early days of your dating/courtship/wooing/chasing. This will instantly re-establish the connect that brought you both together, and you'll fondly look back at those days and moments. You may not be able to summon that kind of passion, but you can still steal time for just the two of you.... Remember when passion subsides, companionship takes over. Revel in the comfort of becoming good companions.
2. True, you are now man and wife, but you don't need to merge your individual identities. If before marriage you were fond of wearing skirts, or playing a game of cricket with the boys, you don't need to give that up just because you're now married. As long as it doesn't hurt anyone, of course, like it would if you were a Casanova before marriage and insist on being allowed to remain so! It's worth preserving your own identity in a marriage because then you wouldn't be forced to cramp your signature/individual style or lose your personality. This will mean that there will be little scope for frustration and bitterness as your relationship gets older.
3. Have a lot of US time, but don't forget to have plenty of ME time either... you not only stay away from each other's hair, but also give no room for breeding contempt that too much familiarity and being together invariably bring.
4. While giving space to each other is vital, make sure that communication never ceases. Any lull in communication can be potentially dangerous. So, have periods of silences but fill each other in when you catch up. If there's anything that's bugging you about the other, or if there's something at work that's troubling you, nothing works better than using each other as involved and responsive sounding boards. Bounce ideas, plans, off each other.
5. Fights between couples are normal, but so is making up. Scream, holler, have it all out, but once you're over and done with remember to not let the sun go down on your fight. Make up before the day's out.
6. Many couples fight over finances. Joint accounts and holding investments together are all very fine, but there's no need to give up your fiscal independence or opt out of holding individual bank accounts.
7. Infidelity- Now that's a deal breaker, but don't suspect your spouse of infidelity if he or she is appreciative of someone of the opposite sex, or is a recipient of admiring glances from them. Also you don't need to jump into some absurd conclusion just because you stumbled upon some innocuous SMSes or mails, or the last number dialed happened to belong to a colleague of the opposite sex. Unless you've caught him or her red-handed or have enough incriminating evidence to nail him or her, like, say, lipstick on his collar (of a shade not in your lipstick collection) or some strong masculine perfume on her person (a fragrance that's certainly not part of your vanity collection), there's no need to go ballistic or melodramatic. Even in cases where the telltale signs are rather strong, it would be better if you can bring it up instead of losing your sleep, peace and equanimity of mind over it.
BOYS ARE BETTER THAN GIRLS
Mar. 7th 02:37 PM 2013
Boys can sit in front of a scary movie and not close their eyes once.Boys dont have to sit down every time they go.
Boys dont get embarrassed easily.
Boys can go to the bathroom in the woods.
Boys can climb trees better.
Boys can hang onto their stomachs on fast rides.
Boys dont worry about diet this and diet that.
Boys are better tractor drivers than girls.
Boys rite better than girls.
Boys can build better forts than girls.
Boys can take pain better than girls.
Boys are way more cooler.
Boys have less fits.
Boys dont waste their life at the mall.
Boys arent afraid of reptiels.
Boys shave more than girls.
Boys dont do all those wiggaly movmets when they walk.
Boys dont scratch.
Boys dont brade anothers hair.
Boys arent smart alickes.
Boys dont cry and feel sorry when they kill a fly.
Boys dont use as much deoderent.
Boys were created first.
Boys learn to make funny noises with their armpits faster.
Boys can tie better knots specially girls pony tails.
Boys get to blow up more stuff.
Without boys there would be no babies. (Now there is a new thought).
Boys eat with a lot of heart.
Boys dont WINE.
Boys hum best.
Boys are proud of their odor.
The list was compiled from what the boys thought of themselves vis--vis girls. One thing is, however indisputable between girls and boys; boys make more spelling errors than girls if we compare the two lists. Whether this means that girls are more better than boys is debatable. I personally think that both boys and girls are more better and so I love them equally.
LOVE
Mar. 7th 01:58 PM 2013
Love is an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment. Love is also said to be a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection—the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another". Love may describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one's self or animals.In English, love refers to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from pleasure ("I loved that meal") to interpersonal attraction ("I love my partner"). "Love" may refer specifically to the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love, to the sexual love of eros, to the emotional closeness of familial love, to the platonic love that defines friendship, or to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love, or to a concept of love that encompasses all of those feelings. This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, compared to other emotional states.
Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.
Love may be understood as part of the survival instinct, a function to keep human beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of the species
