I need advise from the house please. A brother inlaw of mine, trained a lady through nursing and mid-wifery institution. She has now graduated and got a job that brings her atleast 180,000 to 200000 monthly. The sad partof the story is that this guy is an o level graduate did had an opportunity to work in a construction company and was well paid. He lost the job. For a year now he been jobless.. When he was on the job, he vitually spent so much in up-keeps, tuition fees etc, to see that this lad... Read (11)

My job is mind numbing and so far away from people I care about. I' ve been wanting to kill myself and slowly slipping away as every job application is declined. The manager of my current job called me to her office. I was expecting to be fired, but instead they asked me if I wanted to work a different position in the company, which is effectively a promotion. I applied for this several months ago. I accepted it. I don' t know what I' m doing anymore.... Read (9)

I am a girl, pretty,responsible and I am 23yrs old and I have never experienced a relationship and I have been bordered. Pls my friends do you think it is normal ?... Read (16)

i wonder what some ladies are turning relationship into. my confession is to beg all guys to please hustle hard but don' t hustle in a devilish way. my baby mama left me 2 years ago just because things were so rough for me - infact there was no hope and she become the bread winner and i lost my manship in the house. she decide where i go and what i do b4 she left. i have been begging her to comeback but she said she is not interested in the relationship anymore. december last year God blesse... Read (13)

it's been way back long mehn youngchoppa just came around to say hi... Read (8)

pls pals, is this right? i have done my fiancee's introduction last 2weeks, am waiting for her parents to give me list for the traditional marriage which the father said he will be going to the village next week to bring it for me. am still suprise that my fiancee still tell people that she is not married. on sunday at the church the pastor ask every single ladies who is looking for husband who wants to get married this year to comeout so that he will pray for them she cameout.... Read (19)

Good evening 9ja pals. Please i need the matured audience opinion. am a 34 yrs old guy trying to settle down. but the problem is my love will just go down from 95% to 40% after having sex with a lady which will make me not to be fully commited and automatically i will stop putting more effort to make it work..... this is affecting me and i don' t know how to put an end to these attitude. i pitty these ladies (am not doing it to suffer them) because i feel very bad. please i need your opinion... Read (12)

To those who criticized my last post, about my lady financing our marriage. The true of the matter is that am not just watching her struggling alone. Am at time developing some new skills aside what i studied in college, since getting white collar-jobs are not easy to by. Besides my lady is getting abit advance in age. Hence, we got to set things going. To those umprevoilged ladies waiting for ready made, you would realize when the bell of late 30 and 40 ring.... Read (6)

I leave a lot behind. My parents. My siblings. My girlfriend. But it is for the better. I will leave home. Barely any money. Will find a new city. Meet new people. New opportunities. Start my life from scratch. This is for the better. I' m sure it is. It must be. I am really indecisive, but i do not have any other options. It is either this or my family moves me back to my home country. I know barely anything of that country. THIS is my home. I will leave on Thursday, May 19th 2016. I don�... Read (10)

Tank u all but take correction@ghettoswag,she is not a dwarf, if u see her ur tin go stand, i tink is God's doin sha, bcos dat day we met i was angry wit my sales boy, wen heavy rain started n she ran into my shop,we dnt talk for a while, d rain was much dat day, so wen it started getin dark i gave her my new umbrella, so d next day she bout it back to me,n she was wit her mom,she said tank u for yesterday, so i ask for her name n number, dat was hw we start she is a grduate ,am not n she l... Read (9)