Pals, is it bad 4 ur father 2 assist u financially in ur wedding ceremony as a man, I hav a father who is financially capable but gets angry in assisting any of his children financially. Pls, dnt get me wrong, by d grace of God, am vry capable to foot my wedding bills as planed. Am working in an oil company were I earn over 400k monthly after evryy deduction. I went 2 my dad n told him of my plans, after our intro, he collected d list from my inlaw which is over 500k. He doesn't know how much I earn n feel I wanna depend on him. I put it 4ward 2 him so as 2c his reactions. 4 me, I went 2 him n asked of his plans 2wards d wedding n he said I should go ahead as he has his own plan. I was xpecting him 2 call me n ask of my plans n possibly advice me on my spending but 2no avail. He went ahead telling pple dat he married my mum witout d assistance of his father or anyone. I laughed at his statements cos I have planned myself n fully prepared for d wedding. I jst wanted 2 give him d honour as him first son so it wnt look I dnt value anyone cos of d little cash I have. I have concluded 2 prevent his spend a kobo so as 2 prevent him of his unnecessary comments in d future. I have also planned not 2 take in serious anymore n divert 95per of d cash I wuld spend 4 my parent 2 only my mum. Dis is a man dat is a saint outside but a lion in his home. He can spend 2d last penny 4 pple outside but his family, he complains of evrytin. Wht are ur stake on dis pals?