Good morning everyone. I need your advice so urgent. I hav...

Good morning everyone. I need your advice so urgent. I have a girlfriend that told me she is pregnant for me but I did nt Blv her bcox I always see her receiving different calls from guys so how will she say I'm the one that impregnate her.
After all said and done she left with the pregnancy and she gave birth to it. A bouncing baby boy. When she was pregnant everyone said I should wait for DNA report but she travel to her village to deliver the baby as shame did nt allow her to stay in Lagos. The problem now is I want to settle down. I don't want a polygamous home neither do I want to have children with different mother. I have been calling her to come back and let have the said wedding done and move on with life but she affirm. I know a mistake can ruin a man's life... I wish I take my baby from her nd let her be. But what will be of the baby if he grows up and see me with another woman that isn't not her biological mum? Or the baby will not have his own brothers but will have half brothers nd sister as his own... All this is making me to think so much and I need to settle down. I have so many ladies around me but I don't know what to really do.... Pls advise

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