Please pals help me
How can you forget a guy who never treated you right , who insult you and insult your parent too , and dont give you the respect you deserve has a woman. I once dated a guy that i loved him so much more than he loves me...i think so , when we started everything was going smooth and nice , dat even if we had a little quarrel bfr the ending of the day we back to normal. But since i told him something personal life , he started using to insult me and insult my parent.. it not like wat i told him about me was that bad , he also told me about his but i dont like to insult people because the pro they have or about thier personal life , cos it really hurt. then he start like calling me a bitch , golddigger or slut different kind of names. I will just get angry and sad then aviod him. then he will tell me he was not talking to me , he was just joking that he cant call his gf that kind of names...insteed for him to say Sorry he will say i caused it. It not like i do ask him for money or gift or whatever , even the ones he promise to give me ...i didnt ask him about that , cos am not the kind of person that eat from guys and it doesnt bother me if my bf spend money on me or not ....all i want is for the guy to love me , thats it. but this guy behaves like i ask him for heaven and earth. this keep going on and on and on. That each time i try to talk to him , he will say i get emotional easily dat i should control it or he will say am talking rubbish. but where everything ended was when he told me he had a girfriend that i was just his friend nothing else , that he was just playing with my head..i felt like i was hit by a truck...i didnt know weather to cry or scream but i was cold that day. I even went out with my friend and when i came back home i cried like a baby that i couldnt hold it. But the problem here is that i keep thinking about him every min , sec , day or ever hour , i just cant stop thinking about him. I even go on the intenet to read HOW TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE AND THEY HURT YOU i keep doing dat , but it not working , to the extend dat i dont have any feelings for guys anymore....i dont hate guys but all my feelings for guys are gone , like if i see a guy i dont feel anything and i dont want to be in a relationship where i will be thinking about him. i think about every singel day. I try to think to myself that without him am fine , that they are a lot of guys who want me and want to be with him., But all my effort failed. Am happy that i didnt have sex with him cos am still a virgin..Am happy i didnt do it.
I just need you to help me on what to do , I mean people some people are going throu hell than i am.
I just need an adivce and please no insult.
Thank you and love you all