I am a kinda man that don't judge people by their past..

My wife and I has shared our past life experiences and relationships, this we have no problem about, atleast we have ran into 3 different guys in different occasions which she told me were her exs, it never affected us,but recently there was a mass employment in my company which a gal I once dated happens to b in the list. I told my wife about it,since then,this has made my wife restless,she now counts every thing and linking it to her presence in my company, if I didn't pick her call at work immediately, she will link it to her presence, if I come back a bit late which has been usual b4 her presence, she will suspect I have gone on a date with her.
She even told me that my dressing nowadays are too smart and romantic that she is not comfortable with, I have made her know that I have nothing to do with her,I am happily married and I vowed never to cheat.

Now she said as one of the managers in my company, I should either work for her transfer or her to b relieved of her duty,but what has this got to do with me,she hasn't done anything wrong, what we shared was at the past, my wife is really pushing me and making my stay at home not enjoying, she is even threatening to go any length to actualize her mission even if it takes me to b fired.

We are 5yrs young in our marriage with 2 kids,I am not happy with what is going on.

What should I do? Should I b behind d lady being sacked or transferred?

Is it a crime to b open to ur partner?

Can u b comfortable knowing that ur partner is working in thesame firm with his or her ex?

Is it good to share ur past relationships wit ur spouse?