I've tried soliciting for advice on this issue in so many forums but nothing seems to come out of it. Jst hoping to get useful advice here. Well, I have a brother (our oldest son, am the lst born) whom I used to live with in Lagos. We were living with him as his siblings and he was taking care of us including my mother who was back in the villa. This guy loved us so much, infact he financed my education. Let's just say that everything we used to have as a family came directly or indirectly from him: money, food, clothes, education name it. Then, he got married! A few years after getting married, he began to change gradually, until he totally abandoned us. Infact he banned us from visiting him and the worst is that he stopped taking care of our mother. At a point he called my mother a witch. He stopped paying my school fees, though I was in my 3rd year in university. The cut the story short, I've graduated and am serving, and we are still managing without him, but I love my brother and I want our family to return back the way it was before. I know other people have this kind of problem, but I feel sth can be done, though I don't know. All efforts to try and beg him and bring him back have been futile. I still want him around, not for what he can do for me per say, but for the peace and oneness of my family, cos people have been saying all sorts of things. Pls any idea of what can be done?