I am a 33-year-old Nigerian lady who is married to a 33-year...

I am a 33-year-old Nigerian lady who is married to a 33-year-old Nigerian boy….Yes boy. We met when we were very young and we have 2 kids together. We live in different countries,I live in Nigeria and he lives in Canada. He is the most irresponsible man I have come across. He only comes home once in 3 years and does not send money for the kids upkeep at all. The thing is, I can’t travel, so it makes it very difficult.

I am tired of praying and fasting and hoping for a change. All he does is drink and party, he is more bothered about looking good, wearing all the designers in the world and taking ladies around. The truth is I am fed up with the whole thing, because I feel like a single mother and I really do not have a life anymore and to be honest, my ears are full. He is the biggest liar in the world. My family is telling me to be patient and that he will change.

I am still young and pretty. I know I can still have a shot at life. I am tired and confused as to the next step to take. I need serious advice please.

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