Ur advice is needed.am from Anambra state though am not in Naija at the moment,am 34.I dated a girl from lmo state between 2004 and 2006 b4 travelling out of Naija 2007.this girl happen to be my first love and we love each other so much but,I happen to be the one that termnated the relationship bcos,the mum invited me for a round table talk.her reason of our discusion was to know if my air my aim with the daughter would end up in marriage or if its just bf and gf.being that I justed started life then and couldn't take perfect care of myself then,not to talk of thinking about marriage,I replied the mom that we are till in bf and gf but,if its the will of God dat I would get married go the daughter,that it would surely take place.I didn't want to make a promise I wasn't sure of fulfiling.she now said ok,that she only wanted to know my intention.I left after the meeting but,didn't feel comforable with the r/ship thereafter bcos,I started seeing it that I was hindering her from getting married which I told her though,she said I shouldn't mind her mom but,then I was no longer comfortable with the whole think,that was how I terminated the r/ship against her wish,bcos I needed to make money first and stand on my own b4 getting married.my problem now is that am ready to get married now but,am finding difficult to see a girl and love the way I use to love this my first love.this is a serious problem bcos,I have been in this situation for bearly 2yrs now and my Chika has gotten married since 3yrs back.plz,advice me on how I can get my mind off so that I can focus and find love again,tnx