Please in sincerity this is what am passing through,.......from my secondary school days I started setting standards and principles on which I live my life, one of them which is not trying in any way date or go into relationship with any gurl that is into relationship or date of any kind, because I know somewhere outside me a guy like me will be getting hurt so I took time to learn how to exercise patience till I come across such a free gurl and guess I can't let the opportunity slip by....there is this gurl I had as my woman wheni was in my final year In the college, later we got separated and after awhile she saw me and breeding that feelings of what she called love, when asked, she told me she is into a relationship but seeing me that she can never love her guy again no matter how hard she could try, but right now that my standard and principles which has become a part of me can not allow me to neck-bend my decision on it. Seriously I need a worth advise and a sincere one at that.....pls pls pls my kneels are on the ground, no vain reply nor abuse I plead to you guys.