Good day pals. i need your opinion on this issue bordering me. am in a very confused state. i have 2 lovers and i love both of them. though both does not have same character or attitude. The issue now is that the one that is most calm does not even have a job or what he is doing now, he's been working on traveling out to join a club as a footballer in summary he is very broke now, no house, leaving with the aunt, no job, doesnt even have a penny except i give him cos i work.

The other is also on me to settle down, he has a house n all he is not a gentle guy as such he does every other thing my footballer guy dont do. but am afriad of hurting the footballer. i even tot he can do something small on me yle i talk to my pple of his state but yet he cant even afford anything for now not even the expenses for a simple court wedding alone.

my problem now is that i love to marry this year, but do i keep waiting for my footballer guy until when it get betters? or take the other option. will be 30yrs this september.