Good evening my pals.i have a problem here.why does a husband gets so jealous that he starts controlling. We've been married for 5yrs and both very young.im 23 and he is 30....he started all this controlling thing ever since I've started working . I've also worked before when we werent living together due to long distance etc but he wasnt like this....i don't dress up in a very sexy way.normally long dresses, trousers and leggings and African attires.can you believe that yesterday while his brother visited us and i wanted to tag along to accompany him and his bro outside my husband said if I'm going to go out with the leggings im wearing then i should just stay home so i decied to change...i don't understand y all this jealousy etc.....men in da house.what do u say about this matter.....