Hi guys.am having an issue and I will like some insight.
I can't seem to trust my bf.we've been dating for 4 years now and I still have to double check everything he tells me.
About 2 years ago,he confessed to being seduced by his friend's gf at a bar and he responded though nothing happened cos they were both at the bar buh from the way he sounded if they had a room,something definitely would have happened
Since then,he's been completely honest and open.i have all his social media passwords,his phone password and the whole nine and I check him every chance I get and always feel guilty when I find nothing. I don't know if he's being careful or am being paranoid.
I want to be able to trust him again but I just can't.
It's gotten to the point where I dial unknown contacts on his phone just to see if it's a girl but it's always a guy.
He hasn't given me any reason to suspect him since that incident but I still do.
How do I get back the trust I used to have for him.i mean before his phone would ring a million times and I wouldn't even bother because even if it's a girl,I know nothing is going on but now even if it's a network message,I rush to get the phone first.
It's ruining my rshp and I want to trust him again.pls fellas and chicks,help a friend here...